This has been a subject that has been on my mind for awhile now and mostly as it relates to girls and their modesty, which I think is interesting since I have boys, but maybe its because I don't want my boys looking at immodest girls. The YW I used to have the pleasure of working with were SO great at being modest. They would find modest prom dress, or make the modest by putting cute jackets over or having sleeves made. In their everyday wear they would also make adjustments to their clothing to make them modest. I had a thought of when they started dressing modestly (no, I haven't asked their parents, but maybe I shall). So, Shane and I thoughts on the matter is to start early, not early as in when they enter elementary school, but early as in infancy. Now, maybe you are thinking that a little infant girl or toddler wearing tank dress isn't that big of a deal, but to us it is. Start early so hopefully it can be a teaching moment throughout their lives and when they are teenager they have already made the choice to dress modesty. I recently ran into an old friend from college, Tina Harding at the pool where 3 of her 5 children are taking swim lessons and Corin is too, just at different times. Her 4th child is a little girl who is super cute and funny. She loves to boss Corin around in a cute way and Corin doesn't mind a bit since I don't think he really listens to her, just plays with her before his starts and her siblings gets over. One day she had on a cute little tank dress that crisscrossed in the back and Tina put on a little white tee under it. She still looked super cute and modest!! Even a 2 1/2 year old can be modest. Shane was there that day and even commented on how cute she looked with the tee underneath her dress. So, these are just my own personal thoughts on the subject. Boys are SO much easier I have found out. It is so easy to find tees and long shorts for them, but adjustments and layering can be made to girls clothing. So when I have a girl, which when we decide for #3 I hope it is whether she be 2wks, 2months, 2years or 12yrs I will always dress her modestly.